
(This is not a usual blog post but rather a note addressed to parents. It is posted here to communicate this same message on all fronts and get the word out to our people what we do in our youth ministry.)
Beloved Parents, and fellow Pilgrims,
Parenting is a daunting task. It is a huge, scary, lifelong commitment. There are so many pitfalls, so many sinners who try to entice, so many who want us to join them in their self seeking endeavors. I am convinced that our young ones are the age group that is most specifically sought out and targeted by the enemy. In a battle like this, a battle for eternal destiny, allies are welcome.
This is the goal of our youth ministry. We seek to assist you as parents in the role of raising a disciple of Christ. As a parent myself these days I feel with you more than ever. When your child chooses sin and chooses to walk off the path of righteousness, I hurt with you. I lose sleep over those who wander away. I also rejoice when I see one of your children embrace the life of Christ. I rejoice when I watch one of them come alive to the Word. Now, granted I do not feel these emotions as deeply as you, but I do certainly feel them. And I seek to labor with you. I seek to be your ally and aid. I work to faithfully reveal the narrow way through the accurate teaching of God’s Word. I strive to be your ally in reinforcing the lessons you are teaching your children. I seek to be your ally in teaching them to be respectful of the authorities in their lives, and to honor their father and mother.
With such things as these in mind I bring this note to you. This is an effort to keep you informed and involved in the spiritual development of your child. I want you to be fully aware of what we have available to aid you in your quest to raise a man or woman of God:
1. a Bible reading plan
- a 52 week bible reading plan posted in the high school (HS) room
- pick up the plan, walk thru it with your child, do it with them, open the Word with them
2. a Scripture memory system
- lead by Ivan Romine on Sunday mornings in Sunday School
- I have found that we have strayed from this basic discipline over the years and so now we are trying to address the need
3. Know the Word cards
- these simple cards (the size of a business card) have basic how-to-be-saturated-in-the-Word steps to take
- these are in the HS room
4. the youth group blog http://svc-nine23.blogspot.com/
- this will keep you informed as to what is going on with the youth group in our teaching
- I hope you can use this as a possible talking point with your child, to let you know what they are learning and hearing from the leaders of this youth ministry.
- this site has bible study links, bible college links, pop culture filtering links, youth calendar, permission forms, youth worker profiles, link to the Facebook page, event photos, hundreds of articles and posts, the youth group Youtube page, a gospel presentation link, etc
5. the youth group Facebook page http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=49162339309
- this will keep you informed as to the activities and events of the youth group (the who, when, what and where)
6. a youth ministry pamphlet (posted in the HS room)
- this spells out the gospel
- and presents the presuppositional approach to evangelism
- and lines out the basics of what we do
7. the SVC website with resources galore from our Sr. Pastor http://www.svchapel.org/
- the church site also has all the necessary links for all things concerning our youth ministry. This is found at the “youth” tab http://www.svchapel.org/ministries/youth-ministries
8. events going on all the time
- weekly functions like Thursday night Bible Studies, Prayer Breakfast, Wednesday night class, Sunday School
- monthly events like the Fall party, Sunday evening food/fellowships, New Years, Youth Retreats, etc
9. and personal counseling
- this is available all the time
- and specifically in the month of Septmeber, annually
> this I call “maintenance counseling” – nothing is wrong, we (Priscila & I) are just seeing how to stimulate them on to love and good deeds, as well as helping them to establish good habits of bible study, prayer and relationships.
With all of these things there is more to be said – please ask anytime for further elaboration.
Along with this I have a variety of books that I would commend to you all as parents:
· Age of Opportunity – Tripp
· Shepherding a child’s heart – Tripp
· War of Words – Paul Tripp
· Instructing a Child’s Heart – Tedd Tripp
· Humility, true greatness – C.J. Mahney
· Uprooting Anger – Robert Jones
· Heart of Anger – Lou Priolo
· Practicing Proverbs – Richard Mayhue
· Thoughts for Young Men – J.C. Ryle
· What the Bible Says about Parenting – J. Macarthur
· Successful Christian Parenting – J. Macarthur
· Family Based Youth Ministry – Devries
· The Myth of A.D.D. Biblically Redefined – Andrew George & Lindsay Pretious
· Not Even a Hint – Josh Harris
· The Answers Book 1 & 2 – Ken Ham
· Think Biblically – Macarthur
And of a slightly different variety:
· Amusing Ourselves to Death: Public Discourse in the Age of Show Business – Neil Postman
· The Rise and Fall of the American Teenager – Thomas Hine
And finally, a sermon series that I cannot say enough about that I would recommend to anyone:
· The Fulfilled Family – J. Macarthur sermon series http://www.gty.org/Resources/Sermon+Series/52
I hope all of this communicates a level of love and concern, as well as a desire to assist you in this great task you have been entrusted with by our LORD. I want to make these things known and available to you as you seek to make the most of your time with your children and in this life.
Much love,
Brian Gilley